Monday, March 29, 2010

mad world

Last week was madness. Madness in trying to finish projects and madness in hilarious moments. But, I love the library. And video chatting in the library. And eating everything bad for you in this world to keep us awake. And seeing millions of friends exiting Harold during the midnight music dance party. And going to a random comedy club in Salt Lake. And topping it all off with the Festival of Colors...always a Provo hit.

General Petraeus came to BYU on Thursday. He was funny and normal, and really interesting. How great would it be to know everything that he knows? Actually that would be very overwhelming. It is comforting to know there is a good man leading my brother and so many others in the military. I'm so thankful for people who dedicate their lives to protecting this country and our freedoms. They sacrifice so much and give so much, and no one forces them to. They do it out of their own sense of duty and responsibility, and that is absolutely incredible. You da best, Andyman

captain archer
4th of July in Uganda. we love america

Saturday, March 20, 2010

31

 March 20, 1979

Paul and Carol Archer clan began
31 years ago!
their parents
 isn't she beautiful?

They make the cutest young married couple. And not-as-young married couple. I am so grateful they got married on that March day 31 years ago and began their eternal family. I love them both so so much and they have taught me so much. Things like
hard work
service
 laughing at myself
appreciating knowledge
respecting others
family first
standing up for what I believe in
not being ashamed of the gospel of Jesus Christ
finding and giving love
following my passions
how to be a good friend
appreciating the world that we live in
following the prophet
finding and strengthening talents
chewing with my mouth closed
choosing to be happy
i could seriously go on and on and on...

I hope that someday I will be at least half the person that both of them are. They are incredible examples to me and I couldn't ask for better parents. Happy Anniversary, Mom and Dad! Thank you for bringing me into this amazing family that I love more than anything. I love you, to eternity and beyond. I will never forget you!
Oct. 2009

Monday, March 15, 2010

dear kiki

Journaling calms my soul. In Uganda we all journaled every single night. My room was always up later than almost everyone else in the house (except our country directors who probably never slept the whole summer. bless them.) because we were always journaling for a way long time. On Sundays we would journal for literally hours. Yesterday I journaled for hours again and it was wonderful. Let me share a journal entry written by dearest andrew lovell the night we arrived in gulu. It makes me laugh everytime i see it. please note the date


currently listening to: backstreet boys "its gotta be you". the best.

Tuesday, March 09, 2010

if i could change the world

“A man filled with the love of God, is not content with blessing his family alone, but ranges through the whole world, anxious to bless the whole human race” -Joseph Smith

Helping out at the Hunger Banquet last week and trying to make decisions on summer plans, has me thinking a lot about humanitarian work lately and why I love international development. It honestly is a depressing field of work, it is slow moving and it is frustrating. There are problems with methods of doing development work--people trying to work from the top down rather than the bottom up, people seeing themselves as saviors here to fix the world but doing more harm than good, giving emergency aid (which is necessary, but not enough) but not sustainable aid, corrupt governments that will not help their own people, it goes on and on. Poverty is real and it is everywhere. I do not think it is possible to eradicate poverty. Not until we are all living the gospel. But I do think it is possible to change lives. I do believe that through correct and sustainable methods, it is possible to lift individuals and families out of a cycle of poverty. I do believe that just working side by side with someone, building a friendship and bringing happiness to each others' lives is making an impact, making a difference.

I say I want to save the world, but I know that it is not really possible. But I'm not going to give up. Realizing that I cannot end poverty is not going to make me stop trying. Ishmael Beah, former child soldier and author of A Long Way Gone said, "We have a responsibility to expose ourselves to our world, to see our common humanity, to learn about other people -- not only in times of war, but in times of peace." When we see that common humanity, we will want to help that person and lift them up. We will see the love of God in their eyes and want to bless their lives, as we have been blessed.

Yes there is the argument that they may be living in poverty, but they are happy. And they are, I'm sure they are. But why not make their lives happier? Why not ease their burdens a bit by taking away the fear that they will never be able to pay for their child's education, so their child will never be able to get a good job that will pull them out of this poverty. That will make them happy. But they were already happy in the state they were in, that's enough. No! Don't they deserve more happiness, like you and me?

Warner Woodworth (legitimately one of my heroes) gave a thought about the aforementioned quote by Joseph Smith today in a meeting about getting a group together to go down to Haiti for the summer. It really hit home with me, and I love it. It can be applied to missionary work, to development work, to serving in your community, to serving your neighbors, to serving your friends.

So, today humanitarian work makes me happy. It inspires me and gives me hope. And if anything, it is at least incredibly rewarding for the people doing the service. And I realize I have hardly even scratched the surface with humanitarian work so I am definitely no expert. I probably have no place to even say all of these things, but it is something that is really important to me. I cannot wait to get out there and do more...dang school, have to get skills first. 

One last quote...don't know who said it, but I like it: "Do not be daunted by the enormity of the world's grief. Do justly now. You are not obligated to complete the work, but neither are you free to abandon it."

such a hard little worker

Sunday, March 07, 2010

gradumacation celebration

I wrote this back in May the night before I left for Uganda. I just realized that I never published it, just saved it because I didn't have a picture to use. Good reason, right? Kris often tells me to blog about how great she is, but looky here, I already did! So, with Kris getting a job and venturing off to Arizona in the next few weeks, I thought this would be fitting to fiiinally post. Congrats on the job, krisitita! I still miss you mucho in ptown
Congratulations, Graduate! Last Thursday/Friday my sister Kristie graduated from THE Brigham Young University with a degree in Public Health Education. YEAH KRIS! So awesome, she is such a great student...she even got a 4.0 her last semester, now that is impressive. She even remembers what she learned in class, for example today she taught my Dad and I about injury prevention and having emergency plans (but she had a cool name for it). Yesterday she taught me about symbols on the outside of buildings so firemen know what they will be dealing with. Isn't she smart?

This college graduation made me think back to her high school graduation. Kristie saved me in high school. She let me hang out with her friends and eat lunch with them even though they were 2 years older than me and I was just a dinky little freshman/sophomore. I probably had more friends her age than mine. She always helped me out with everything and was always, always there for me and I relied on her a lot. When Kris graduated from high school I thought my world was ending. Seriously. How was I going to survive high school with her hundreds of miles away in Utah?? I didn't. Ok I did but I missed her a lot. And the rest of my siblings that left me for bigger and better things called college and missions and life in general.

So now I am feeling that way again...how will I survive the rest of college with kris hundreds of miles away in Colorado?? She has also been a huge support to me through college. At the beginning of freshman year when I literally had no friends for a while, she let me tag along with hers. I'm leaving for Africa tomorrow and already missing my family and it just really hit me that Kris wouldn't be coming back to BYU with me in the Fall. I don't like that. But I am still so excited for her and the adventure ahead. Good luck in the real world Kristiena, I know you will go so so far. Go save lives, thousands at a time.

thank goodness sara, eli, and tanner will be there for a semester next year. I have LOVED LOVED LOVED having them back in utah with me. Sunday family dinners at their house are what got me through this year. Oh man, I love my family.

thank goodness the moreys are still in utah is right, having some family semi close by is the best

Thursday, March 04, 2010

barney and friends

when I was little, I used to ask my mom to sing me three songs at night: "Oooo ooo", "I love you" and her choice. Tuesday night when I got out of class I had a lovely message from my mom singing "I Love You" (the Barney version of course, only the best for night time lullabies) but she forgot the order of the words! Does that mean I'm getting old? My mom doesn't remember the words to my favorite childhood song! Still, it made my day.
 
on her birthday. in a river